. I am not perfect. 
But I’m working on myself.
 Working to become the best version of myself.
 I am working on myself
, to continue to expand my own self, through my own work, in my own way.

 Not the ME you think I AM. 
Not the ME you want me to BE… 
Just ME. 
The one I want to BE.

I make my own decisions.
 I don’t follow. 
I walk my own path.

It’s not always easy, 
but I’d rather walk alone
 than walk with others in the wrong direction.

I am strong.
 I have a big heart. 
I speak my truth.
 I don’t back down.

I don’t settle. 
I go after what I want. 
I won’t apologize for being me.

I accept you. 
I accept everyone. 
As they are
. As they want to be.
 That’s ME.

Sometimes i may not appreciate the small things that i have, it took me time to realize all i have been looking for was in ‘ME’,

Sometimes we are too busy looking for faults in others forgetting that we are the broken ones, and we need the healing, once we realize how everyone is beautiful and how we can make everything beautiful again, when we are lost we dont people to change who we are because they think they are fixing us, but lets find people who will be ready to take the journey with us as we fix our selves

Once you realize how much power you hold in you, you will NEVER, let anyone look down on you, tell you can not reach your goal or tell you your weak just tell them you are a masterpiece, you are fearfully and wonderfully made


Prince charming πŸ’—πŸ’•πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’˜πŸ’•

Ever met someone and you wish they had come into your life earlier before you settled for less than you deserve πŸ˜•. Before I continue I will pose a question to you my lovely readers do you believe that there real gentlemen out here?

Well I know one in particular β€β€πŸ’–β€πŸ’–β€πŸ’–πŸ’–β€. Being around him makes me feel like a little baby on Christmas day when I receive that gift that I have been waiting for.

With him I don’t need to try so much for him to notice me, in his world I own the crown and he doesn’t fall short of a king in my life either just like lucios lion he found his cookie πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

Its the little things that he does that makes my heart skip a bit and I have to tap myself to see whether am in a dream, a dream that I never want to wake up from ever,

When he call me beautiful πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜, the way he appreciates the little things I do, he is my shoulder to lean on when my world seems to crumbling at my feet, he encourages me to try and if I fail he tell me try again, his friendship is more than rubies

If that isn’t the beginning of a beautiful love story then I don’t know how one would call it. The one thing that makes him more special is he is a believer something that our generation does not appreciate.

we are told the way to a mans heart is through his stomach but let’s just say I don’t have to cook, you would say that tats my duty as the lady but when he cooks you will never let him out of the kitchen

Get a man that is not afraid to show you off, a man that is not afraid to show you his real emotions because that doesn’t make him less of a man it makes him more human. A man that would go his extra mile defending and standing by your side no matter the situation

Get a man that is not only you final piece in your puzzle but a man that completes you in all areas of your life. Get a man that you will build an empire with not gain more followers on your social media platforms.

And for you men if your lady would go an extra mile for you, just hold her down appreciate her, make her feel special make her want to always be with you , make her feel that isn’t an option but a priority to you because real ones are rare to find when you find them treasure those moments you have together

Not all men are animals as you think, I found my better half, my missing piece, the reason I smile every day, which shows that there are really good guys left in this world no what your love story has been choose to write it your own way

And no woman at any time should be subjected to violence, for women should be treasured, cared for, loved but not used as punching bags. πŸ’—πŸ’˜πŸ’•πŸ’˜πŸ’“πŸ’”πŸ’˜πŸ’•πŸ’˜πŸ’”πŸ’˜πŸ’•

i found my missing piece πŸ’•πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’šπŸ’˜πŸ’šπŸ’˜πŸ’šπŸ’“πŸ’•πŸ’˜πŸ’”πŸ’“πŸ’“

i found my missing piece πŸ’•

21st century love story πŸ’–β€πŸ’–β€

Who/how we love may be changing but our desire to be in a relationship endures.This is because love is something that we cant live without because it runs the world.

Growing up every girl had a check list of that dream guy that the wanted to have in their life😊😊😊😊😊. He had to be tall, dark and handsome, earns a six figure salary, drives big car and lives in the leafy surbs haha but that’s all a fantasy

Lets come back to reality where by a relationship begins by commenting on each other’s pictures with’awwh😍😍😍😍😍😍’which later graduates to sliding in each other’s dms, then Netflix and chill and within a week you already in love ready to die for one another πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•how does that happen?

Lets come back to reality whereby for a relationship to work it requires validation from your 10k, 20k, 30k and 100k followers on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. 90%of these followers you know nothing about you but only the facade you let them see.

Lets come back to reality where by conversations have become text messages, arguments become phone calls and feelings become status updates . no one what’s to have face to face conversation where they show their emotions and become vulnerable .

Lets come to reality where by its perfectly fine to touch each other’s ‘fundamentals’😊😊😊😊you know what I mean, but you can’t touch each other’s cellphones because they are private .

lets come back to reality where by no one what’s to sweat and build relationships but reaping where one didn’t sow is the norb of the day, where by being ‘a klande’is highly appreciated than being the main chick

love should be sweet, kind, keeps records of no wrong, love shouldn’t be fake, I hope we all find love that is genuine, we all find that chaguo LA moyoπŸ’–β€πŸ’–β€πŸ’–πŸ’–. Just ask your self if the reason why you fell in love would be taken away will your love still be there???

The weeping heartπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­

Did you love him?Β  Take a minute before you answer me that πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰, yes i loved him extremely which i thought i was running mad and stupid, my friends told me “kudate msee ka huyo ni high risk” which i was ready to take at all cost

What we had was rare i would say i had found my knight in shinning armor, my blank panther, my superman ,my everything all wrapped into one ribbon which i thought was too good to resist at all

He made me feel young again and took me to elementary everytime he spoke he made me recite my abcs everyday this made melt deep inside, i still hear him whisphering this to me”A-i give you A because you are amazing

B-your beautiful but with brains too

C-couragoues, caring

And D- i give it all to you because deserve it”i forgot to say 1plus 68πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ™ŠπŸ™ŠπŸ™ŠπŸ™ŠπŸ™ŠπŸ™Šbut this changed when my prince became the reason i cry every day 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭what hurts the most is not girls hitting on your man but one you realize that he is actually enterraining it, he made me feel worthless, used and a foolπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­ my heart weeps for vegeance but not strong enough to fight am broken am messed up ,i cant think straight, am emotionally drainedΒ  i need someone to rescue me from myself πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”but i need him but he found comfort in the arms of another